For the reveal that must not leak
A reveal works when the secret holds and everyone follows the colour cue at the right moment. A password-protected page keeps details away from prying eyes and shows guests exactly what to do.
Let us be honest first: a gender reveal is not a separate event type here. The closest fully supported setup is the baby shower, and that is exactly what you build a reveal on — the same page, the same reply flow, the same schedule and directions. What it gives you that a printed card cannot is control over who sees what, and a way to keep the secret to the people you chose.
The reveal hinges on two things. The secret has to survive until the moment you decide, and the guests have to follow the colour instruction correctly. A hosted, password-protected page handles both: the details stay behind a code you share deliberately, and the theme-colour note is spelled out in one place everyone reads before they arrive.
Protect the page and share the password only with guests you have chosen. Anyone who finds the link without it sees nothing.
Say plainly what to wear or bring — a blue or a yellow ribbon, pastel pink or green — so nobody accidentally spoils the photo.
Place the reveal in the run of day: when it happens, after which course, and whether guests should stay for cake.
Keep the outcome in the envelope or the cake, not in the wording. The page announces a moment, never the answer.
Warm, a touch playful, and careful not to leak. European names are placeholders:
You are invited to a small reveal for the Lindqvist family. Come at four, wear the colour you were sent, and bring your loudest gasp.
The hosts will send each guest a single colour word by text. Please dress to it, and do not ask anyone else theirs — that is the game.
If you already know and we did not mean to tell you, take the secret to the table with you. We are trusting the circle.
The reveal page only protects the secret if you do these first:
How it works
Sign up and pick a baby shower design — the closest supported type — or describe the reveal to Jitabi and let it draft the page.
Turn on access control and decide who you will send the code to, so the time, place, and colour note stay within your chosen circle.
Place the reveal in the run of day and write the theme-colour instruction once, where every guest will read it.
Enable RSVPs so the count is honest, then send the protected link to each guest with the password attached privately.
Questions
No. A reveal runs on the baby shower setup, the closest supported type, which gives you a hosted page, replies, a schedule, and a password. You get a well-run reveal, not a special reveal template.
The page itself is behind the code, so a guest who shares the link without the password cannot expose the details to anyone outside the circle. You control exactly who receives both halves.
Yes. Send each guest their colour word privately and describe the instruction on the page — wear the colour you were sent, do not compare notes. The page never has to say what the colours mean.
Yes, that is the whole point of the schedule section. Place the reveal in the run of day so guests know when to look and when to cheer, and you can keep the answer itself off the page.
That is a human risk no page fully removes, but a protected page still helps: you can change the password, and guests without it simply see nothing, so a leak is not the same as a public broadcast.
Get Started
Build the reveal on a protected shower page so the time, place, and colour instructions reach only your chosen guests, and the answer stays in the envelope until you open it.
